Love

Every kind and every flavor, from uptown Saturday nights to a Sunday kinda love. Family and friendship, as well as finding red-hot romance in mid-life and beyond.

Make a decision that will truly last.

No New Years Resolutions

My Sisters. We are in the season to stop and be grateful!  Our lives are filled with the culture of gotta go.  Got to go to work.  Got to go to church.  Got to go grocery shopping.  Got to go to a meeting.  Got to go pay the rent.  Got to go to celebrate – […]

ON BEING GRATEFUL

One of the most crushing online experiences today is to be “unfriended.” Ouch. Sometimes, it’s even sisters before misters, because to be a friend, and have a friend, nurtures your soul like nothing else.

 BE FRIENDED

Love is a many-gendered thing. Our Dr. Lou offers wise and compassionate insights into loving relationships that defy social expectations and conventional limitations.

Same Gender Love

Love is divine and if you have found the love of your life in a younger man – I say – “Let your friends and relatives eat cake because they are just jealous.” Peace and blessings on your fabulous “Cougar” Love, Dr. Lou

I AM NOT A COUGAR

Life is like a river, always moving on, and our sexuality is part of that dynamic flow. Dr. Lou, our wise-woman columnist who writes of love, sex, and intimacy, shares her latest observations on Eros at mid-life and beyond.

SEX

I am a proud Black woman and excited about this new time in my life. Truly, as my grandmother use to say: “The Lord writes straight with crooked lines.” Who would have thought I would be writing about Love on the Fifty Nifty and More site?

BLACK LOVE IS REVOLUTIONARY